Did she mention a favorite a TV show in her description, does it look like she travelled somewhere cool in her photos, does she list beach volleyball as one of her interests?
Photos, profile description and interests will give you lots of content to work with when you’re crafting that first message.
Most guys really have no idea what to do after they get a number.
In order to get a reply from a first message, it needs to be unique.
Pull something from her profile that indicates you’ve taken the time to get to know her.
Be respectful, but don’t forget to show off your sense of humour. I was in Italy this past summer myself – loved the food and history. A call to action prompts the user to respond and much sooner than they otherwise would.
: Hey Tallblondecanuck, I really enjoyed reading your profile. Although your instincts are to end with something like “Hope to hear from you soon” or “Chat later”, try your best to ignore these instincts and ask a question that relates to their description, interests or photos.